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For some of us August represents the "middle" of summer; to others, "the end of summer." It is actually both. As the season begins to change and structured routines return, it can be a great month to "re-think" house rules and practices for the Fall.
Maybe the children in your life have been traveling, visiting friends or relatives, in day or sleep-away camp, or working at summer jobs. During August, family routines are often different. Before you slip back in to the "same old - same old," take some time and imagine what you would like your personal and your family time to look like and how it can be structured.
Consciously consider how you want to begin, go through, and end each day. What are the most effective and healthiest ways to recognize and integrate everyone's spiritual, physical, emotional, work, and school needs?
What would you like to adjust? Family dinner? One-on-one time? Involvement with nature? Technology-free experiences?
Settle on two or three changes (maybe they are changes in family rules) and before your fall "routine" begins again, share your thoughts about what you want to do differently and why. Solicit ideas from each person in the family and honestly consider what might work. Try some suggestions for one or two weeks.
Once you decide, slowly start to change some of the routine so it's not such a shock in September. Most of us (children included) do better when our days begin to have a little more structure. For example, begin rolling the bedtimes back by 10 or 15 minutes a night to slowly move kids into their school schedule. Observe what your kids are doing rather than what they're saying and make adjustments as necessary. At the same time, be sure to listen when they share their feelings about the end of summer or some concerns about the school year and involve them in exploring solutions.
Consider designating an official end of summer to help mark the transition. Celebrate the summer ending over a special picnic or potluck where everyone can talk about their favorite moments of the past two-to-three months. Rituals like this can help family members carry happy memories into the fall.
A Good Daily Habit
Finding Stillness in a Noisy World.
The world is a noisy place, and trying to focus on a task or challenge can be difficult with a consistent bombardment of sounds.
With practice and focus, we CAN create our own inner stillness in the midst of distractions. We can take a break and take deep breaths for a few minutes, going to a quiet place within to "reset." We can then return to what we were doing, refreshed.
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Tips for Making the Most of Your Time Off
In August, many of us take time off from our normal routine. If you are lucky enough to have a few lazy-days-of-summer, here are some suggestions to make the most of them:
Take Time to Nurture Yourself. - Whether you are alone or with friends, new folks, or family, do something each day to nurture yourself -- something YOU love. A walk alone? Listening to music? Reading the morning paper? Soaking your feet? Sleeping late? Retiring early. Be sure to listen to your body and your inner voice to keep your personal reservoir full during this time. It does not make much sense to finish your "time off" feeling more tired than when you began.
Get to Know the People You are with from a Fresh Perspective. - Revisit some of the previous times you were together. Get to know their perspectives on those times as well as sharing your own. Time often changes the way we perceive choices we made and experiences we had. Talking about our "shared history" can be an eye opener. No need to focus on whose memory is "right" and whose is "wrong." Allow there to be space for different remembrances and perceptions of what you may have thought was the "same" experience.
Do Something Different from the Way You Usually Do Things. - Patterns and habits take time to change. Think if there are any habits or patterns you would like to alter in some way. Beginning new, healthy ways of living are often best begun when "out of our normal routine." Then, when we get back into the routine we have already begun those new patterns and habits which draw on different internal resources to keep ourselves healthy. Something as simple as quieting ourselves before bed, breathing deeply to focus our mind, noticing things we appreciate, attending to detail, or moving our body in a different way can have a subtle yet lasting impact.
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